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I am a 40 year old single mom. I knew that I was different from the other kids since the 2nd grade. It was obvious since I was the kid that the teachers called....stupid, an idiot, a failure...you get the picture. I was diagnosed with ADHD and LD when my daughter was 3. It broke my heart. I have done the research, read most of the books, and have participated on the sites. There are two types of people with ADHD. Those who make it, and those who don't. I have yet to come across anyone that is inbetween. I never made it, and because of that I am broke. Please do not get me wrong, I step up to the plate and take full responsibility for my mistakes. My mistakes are huge and I know other like this. We may not make the same mistakes, but we will make more huge, hard and depressing mistakes. I own all the books, and some of the info is great, but remembering to put it to use everyday???
I have two successful brothers. One with ADHD and the other does not. The one with it has made it and I see the difference in us. He isn't driven to distraction. He isn't a night owl. He stays so focused that he has followed through until he made it. I am proud of him and I am never jealous of those who make it, I just wish I was one of them. I do not follow through. I have fifty-thousand "great ideas" and jump from one to the other. I am broke. I am poor and I know that it is my fault. I accept full responsibility for it, but I cannot seem to change. I have tried. I am sorry, but the whole volunteer thing would not work for me...see, I need to make money. If I was the other type, the successful type, I wouldn't just volunteer. I would give those Adders like me a start and some hope. I would rather not say how I make a little bit of money here and there. I have come to realize that getting ahead in this world just isn't in the cards for me. You need money for a coach. You need money for a business and I would need someone at my side to help me, because if I "get stuck" that is the end of that. For all the "other type" of ADHDers out there, volunteer. Please remember that we only beat up ourselves for our failure and we are thrilled to see others make it. Envious yes...jealous...no. For me ADHD sucks. I hate it and I wish I was normal. I hope that some people get answers to their questions and it helps. I have given up.
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2009-01-17 02:13
I'm a fan of Seth Godin for many of the same reasons you are - finding out he has ADHD further cements my interest in him as a person. I really find his blog insightful too.
I've sent an email to you with a question - looking forward to the interview! The author does not allow comments to this entry
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