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Mary Ann, Mary Jane, Mary Kate, Mary...????

Two doors down from me lives a lovely family of 6: four children and two parents. Whenever I'm outside or driving by their house, I wave to Tom, the patriarch of the family who always waves back with a wide smile. Often, there's a gaggle of kids playing on the front yard or in the street- baseball, rollerskating- you name it. Included in this happy bundle of people are at least two dogs.

Yet, when I see Tom's wife, I freeze and retreat. Why? Because for the life of me, I cannot remember her name. Now, I've lived in this neighborhood for over 10 years and have passed their house for over 10 years, either by driving, walking, biking or jogging. Yet when I see "Mrs. Tom", I just want to retreat to the other side of the street. Unless I'm driving, of course.

In my early years as a resident here, I'd openly explain to Tom and Mrs. Tom that I was bad with names and to forgive me but...please tell me your name again? They'd smile and remind me. But it's never sunk in.

Why? Because it's a Mary "plus" name. I can remember Mary, but not the plus- is it Kay? Jane? Ann?

Do you have the same problem with double names? Do you have a trick to help you remember what the "plus" part is?

It's a balmy sunny day today. I'll be jogging past their house and hoping I can get away with just a smile and a wave.......

Terry

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