AD/HD and Hypersensitivities

Friday, January 13. 2006

This topic fascinates me. Before my diagnosis, I couldn't understand why things irked me, while others were totally unaffected. Some things bothered me so much, I'd have panic attacks. Or at the very least, discomfort would follow me around 24/7, espcially if I were wearing clothes that weren't cotton.

Mary Jane Johnson and I wrote the following article. If you have specific hypersensitivities, I'd love to hear about them!

AD/HD and Hypersensitivities: The Princess and the Pea Syndrome

It's 12:30 a.m and you force yourself off the computer and head for bed. Your alarm will go off in exactly 6 hours so you know you've got to get some good solid rest.

As you trudge into the bathroom to wash up, you begin to get more awake rather than sleepy. The tang of the toothpaste in your mouth and the roughness of the bristles jar your oral senses. As you search for your softest, most comfy pajamas, you realize you've left them in the washing machine and have nothing remotely as pleasant to sleep in. So you grab your 2^nd favorite pair of PJs. But they just don't feel right. The tag on the collar starts to make your skin itch and ache at the same time. You begin to scratch. And scratch.

12:45 a.m and you collapse into bed. But you forgot to stretch out the sheets tautly and now you feel ridges of fabric ripping across your back, legs and arms. You get out of bed to pull them more tightly and jump back in. You are aware of bumps and irregularities and just can't get comfortable. The room is too hot. Or maybe too cold.

As you try hard to empty your brain of all your thoughts, worries and ruminations, you hear something. It is so loud, you wonder if it's coming from under your pillow. Tick tock. Tick tock. Tick tock. You realize the sound is not coming from the pillow; it's across the room. Your husband has purchased a new clock! And it's not digital. The noise pierces through your brain and you want to throw it out the window. Instead, you take it downstairs and put it under the couch. Even placing it in the next room wouldn't keep that horrible sound from reaching your sensitive ears.

1:15 am and you're still awake. Some odd odor is bothering you and you can't identify the source. It becomes stronger and stronger and you suddenly realize that a skunk has entered the house and sprayed the dog. You wake your husband up urgently to search for the poor victim so you can a) bath him immediately or b) throw him out of the house.

But the dog is at your side, not having moved the entire evening. You realize that the skunk is somewhere outside. You've been fooled again by your hypersensitive olfactory organ.

You hold your nose, place your arm over your ears and finally...FINALLY fall asleep. At precisely 6:30, your clock radio screams out an old Monkees tune and you wake up in a combined state of fog/fright, not knowing where you are, even though you've lived in the same house for 12 years. The awful song is now stuck in your brain and you WANT to take the Last Train To Clarksville. You start your day the same way you have for 35 years: being totally overwhelmed by your own senses. All of which are so finely tuned, that you feel like a piano string so tightly woven, just ready to pop.

Mary Jane Johnson, in her 1998 article titled: "Having ADD And Being Hypersensitive: Is there a Connection?" shares a fascinating exploration of AD/HD nuances that we don't often read, hear or talk about. We know the common AD/HD symptoms of hyperactivity/impulsivity. Or inattention, distractibility. But little is mentioned of the AD/HD and hypersensitivity connection. Sari Solden was one of the first to address it in her book "Women with Attention Deficit Disorder".

But until I began reading about AD/HD- particularly AD/HD in women- I thought I was just an over-sensitive baby who had no backbone, no spine. I thought I was the only one who had an exaggerated startle response to the slightest noise. A sneeze from the back of a restaurant could cause me to jump a foot straight up from my chair. Not fun when you have a glass of red wine in your hand.

Since reading more about AD/HD, and talking to my clients and friends with AD/HD, I've come to learn just how common hypersensitivities are in people with AD/HD. I've since learned that I'm not crazy for hating:

Walking on a sticky floor
Synthetic clothes
Panty hose
Florescent lights
Light touch to my skin
Perfume
Tags in my blouses
Getting caught in the rain
Malls
Amusement rides
Nail polish

Mary Jane, in her article, talks about her aversion to clothes with fitted waistbands, various food textures (tomato sauce is fine. Tomatoes are verboten!).

She and I share an aversion to loud TVs, unsolicited touch, large crowds, and more. She lists many more from a survey she took of attendees at the 4th annual ADDA conference that was held in Washington, DC back in 1998. It's quite interesting to see what adults with AD/HD listed as trouble spots. You can read her survey results at http://www.add.org/content/treatment/pollmj.htm

In working with adults with AD/HD, I will usually ask if they are bothered by hypersensitivities and often they are amazed to hear that they are not alone. Perhaps you too are bothered by the things listed above and never realized the connection between that and having AD/HD.

What To Do
First, recognize that this is part of your own neurology. You are simply more sensitive to your environment and your own "skin". Instead of trying to tough it out, find ways to make your life more comfortable.

Here are some ideas to help you manage your hypersensitivities:

If high heels are simply too painful to deal with, dump them for comfortable flats.
If the sound level is too high at home or at work, purchase special headphones that block out noise or consider white noise machines.
If you have trouble falling asleep because of all the noise bouncing around inside OR outside your head, turn on a small fan or purchase a small bubbling fountain to sooth you to sleep.
Try wearing soft, loose fitting clothing, particularly soft knits or cotton.
If jewelry is bothersome but you must wear a watch, consider a loose bracelet watch
If you become overwhelmed with too much stimuli, take yourself out of the situation. Go to a quiet place, close your eyes and take some deep breaths.
After work, take off all clothing and jewelry and put on a loose fitting robe to help calm and center yourself.
Have regular massages if you find that enjoyable (personally, I hate them!)
Get out in nature as much as possible.

The main point is to stop fighting what you can't control and find ways to ease you into your days with as much comfort as possible. Remember, you're not "weird"...it's just your wiring.

-Helpful Resources-

"The Highly Sensitive Person" by Elaine Aron (Broadway-1997)

"Too Loud, Too Bright, To Loud, To Tight: What to do if you are sensory defensive in an overstimulating world" by Sharon Heller PhD (Harper Collins – 2002)

"Survival Tips for Women with AD/HD" by Terry Matlen, MSW (Specialty Press-2004)

"Women with Attention Deficit Disorder" by Sari Solden, MS, MFCC (Underwood Books-1995)

Copyright Terry Matlen, MSW and Mary Jane Johnson, PCC, ACT

Posted by Terry at 23:11 | Comments (6) | Trackbacks (0)

Trackbacks

Trackback specific URI for this entry

No Trackbacks

Comments

Display comments as (Linear | Threaded)

And here I was wondering what topic I'd tackle in this week's column. This is a perfect topic. Of course, what irritates and annoys is personal, but I can relate with many of these items, especially rumpled bedsheets! I can't sleep in a bed that hasn't been neatly made unless I am beyond exhausted. Drives my wife mad, who could sleep in broad daylight in a hay wagon pulled by a pack of sneezing elephants through rush hour traffic in the rain. She amazes me...

Sticky floors, odors, clothing that doesn't fit right... The world would have me think that I'm simply oversensitive - a whiner and a complainer. The world would be wrong. For people with AD/HD these sensations are noise that can crowd out thought and interrupt concentration.

Great article!

~Douglas

~=~
http://thesplinteredmind.blogspot.com - Fighting neurological disabilities with attitude and humor

#1 Douglas Cootey (Homepage) on 2006-01-19 12:05 (Reply)

Thanks, Douglas. Your comments hit the mark- and made me laugh. This whole thing about hypersensitivities intrigues me because I think there is so much to it that we've not yet realized.

For example, I think a lot of people with anxiety and ADD would benefit from understanding this nagging problem. I know that once I understood more about my ADD, my panic attacks in malls disappeared. I finally understood that I simply couldn't handle the onslought (I need a spellchecker here) of stiumli.

Thanks again for your comments.

Terry

#2 Terry (Homepage) on 2006-01-21 23:46 (Reply)

As crazy as things are right now, here at the end of the American Empire, I'm surprised more people aren't suffering from the symptoms you describe. It's an anxious moment in history - of course people are feeling it.

Maybe more than 6 hours of sleep could help, like maybe 8? I'm calmest when I've had 9. Also bodywork of just about any variety helps: therapeutic massage, acupuncture, osteopathy, etc. And exercise, spending time outside, meditation, breath work. I do it all and still have my anxious moments.

Best of luck to you. Thanks for the educational post.

#3 Reya Mellicker (Homepage) on 2006-01-31 12:03 (Reply)

It is 2:49 a.m. and here I am reading this article ... incredible that it should be so on target. It goes to show you, I am not entirely crazy. I must save this article and read it and re-read it over and over. Thanks. Great posting.

#4 Linda M. on 2006-02-03 05:50 (Reply)

I don't know if this is hypersensitivity disorder or not but has anyone of you ever experience just one quick breathing or your brain just fires out a signal with people's movements, like someone raising up their hands quickly? I don't know how to deal with these issues because they are really bothering me a lot. thanks.

#5 Lisa on 2006-02-17 18:09 (Reply)

I am 18 years old and sitting here at 2:35 when I can not sleep due to somone's music too loud above me! I love loud music but I can't sleep with anynoises going on around me that I can't control. Cotton balls give me the willies! I can't touch them because of the 'sound' they make! Another noise that bothers me is chewing! It drives me to the point of insainity to listen to anyone chew! I can't handle having a T.V. playing in another room while i am watching T.V. I was once diagonsed with ADHD when I was 11 but my parents don't believe that and think that it is all in my head! I don't know what I am supposed to do to function like a normal person since my parents refuse to allow me to take medication! I have even had a 'nearly court order' to take care of my ADHD problem! Can anyone please tell me what I can do!!!

Thanks!

#6 Cassara on 2008-04-28 03:45 (Reply)

Add Comment

Name
Email
Homepage
In reply to
Comment	Enclosing asterisks marks text as bold (word), underscore are made via _word_. Standard emoticons like :-) and ;-) are converted to images. To prevent automated Bots from commentspamming, please enter the string you see in the image below in the appropriate input box. Your comment will only be submitted if the strings match. Please ensure that your browser supports and accepts cookies, or your comment cannot be verified correctly. Enter the string from the spam-prevention image above: Standard emoticons like :-) and ;-) are converted to images. Enclosing asterisks marks text as bold (word), underscore are made via _word_.
	Remember Information? Subscribe to this entry
Submitted comments will be subject to moderation before being displayed.